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My friend Scott

Lost in a pile of old CDs and Zip discs is a copy of an article I wrote for the DePauw Alumnus shortly after Scott Seator died. Today is the 10th anniversary of his death from Whilm’s Disease, an affliction that is highly curable in little kids; not so much in adults. My Reality Fantasy Sports league friends are spending some time today remembering our friend. Here’s a few items that come to mind …

In the spring of 1989, Don Kaiser and Scott joined me for a sports Spring Break down in Arizona. We saw NBA and NCAA basketball games as well as a few major league baseball spring training contests. Scott, whose family knows the Van Arsdales, snagged some Suns-Sonics tickets for us, introducing me to the Gorilla (slam-dunking mascot). At one of the parks (most likely a Cubs game, but I’m putting the incident further and further back in my memory bank), there was a long stretch of wire link fence lining the third-base side of the outfield. I was standing at the fence scouting pitchers in the bullpen and hoping for autographs. A ball was drilled foul, right at me, bouncing a couple times before clearing the fence and hitting me in the hands. I wasn’t expecting the ball to clear the fence, though, and was startled when it reached me. I dropped the ball, and it rolled into the hands of a nearby kid. For most of the rest of the game, I had a group of small children following close behind me in the hope I would bobble another one. Scott took great delight in that.

I’ve only been to Midland once, a road trip arranged with Beav (Larry Serewicz) specifically to see Scott. He was pretty weak, having to leave our Angels game early to rest, but entertaining as always. He arranged for Beav and I to don the puffy Samurai suits and sprint to get a football. I will only recall that Beav did a header after the first step, allowing me an easy jog to the ball. Several fancy footsteps later, I was spiking the ball in the endzone. It was hard to hear in those things, but I think the emcee on the field wanted me to spike it again, so I did. At least that’s what Scott told me later.

It was a turn-back-the-clock day. Midland used to be the Cubs affiliate, so I was drawn to the Number 23 jersey, paying $80 for the full uni (including socks and pant). Beav got the number of some guy named Sosa. Even though it was actually some journeyman first-baseman doing the honors instead of Ryne Sandberg, I do still claim quite correctly that it was worn in a pro game. Cubs fans are agog. I still have the pants (way too small) and the jersey, and I can’t wear the latter without thinking of Scott.

I always thought that — as the person actually doing the bulk of the work looking up boxscores, managing rosters and publishing newsletters — I was the guy holding Reality together. Over the past couple years, I’ve looked back on the whole Reality experience and realize how much I needed Scott to be around. In some ways it was a very subtle change, but when he died the leagues just weren’t the same. Maybe it was just his willingness to make a deal, talk sports, or annoy the crap out of me. Maybe it was the loss of a friend that should still be here today. I was 2/3 of the way through a book on fantasy sports at the time he died (I fully expected him to recover, even in the final weeks), and I never got back to it. My interest in devoting my time to Reality Weekly newsletters also started to diminish. I stopped collecting autographs. I can’t talk about fantasy sports without talking about Scott.

I wish he were still around, particularly with IU’s interest in building a Sports Informatics program. He would have loved that. I miss him.

By Kevin Makice

A Ph.D student in informatics at Indiana University, Kevin is rich in spirit. He wrestles and reads with his kids, does a hilarious Christian Slater imitation and lights up his wife's days. He thinks deeply about many things, including but not limited to basketball, politics, microblogging, parenting, online communities, complex systems and design theory. He didn't, however, think up this profile.

6 replies on “My friend Scott”

Kevin,
Don’t ask me how I stumbled across your blog about Scott. I hate to admit this, but I was actually trying to find out what day he had passed away on. I met Scott when we lived in Singapore and we quickly became good friends. I thought of him as a brother and I miss him dearly. It’s hard to believe it’s been 10 years. It’s amazing whenever I get together with some of our old friends from Singapore how we can spend hours talking about all the good times we had with Scott. He’s dearly missed but never forgotten.

Chris from Texas

Thanks for that comment, Chris. Scott was certainly a unique individual. I knew him about 8 years. I wish it would have lasted longer.

I bet he was a stitch in class. I never had a course with him, but I could picture him asking an endless series of questions … just to see how far off topic he could get the teacher.

Hi Kevin,

I really enjoyed your blog entry about Scott.

I was also a friend of Scott’s in highschool. We used to have a great time talking about baseball; he was an amazing respository of even the most obscure statistics. It’s a terrible shame that such a promising guy had to pass away at such an early age. I think of him a great deal also.

Greg Waldron.

My name is Marla Carr and I am the Member Relations Manager for the Midland Chamber of Commerce. I have been in my position since March and I am the liaison for the M-Squad Ambassadors. Preparing for each months’ Ambassador Luncheon and reviewing our Ambassador Handbook, I wanted to let you know that we actually have an award that was named after Scott who volunteered and enhanced our community as an Ambassador and participtated in ribbon cutting and ground breaking ceremonies. Scott was actually the first recipient of the “Scott Seator Rookie of the Year” award. Our handbook reads, “Scott Seator Rookie of the Year Award – Scott Seator was the first recipient of the Rookie of the Year Award in 1994-1995. Scott was a very special person who was with M-Squad Ambassadors for only two years when he lost his battle with cancer in September 1996. The Rookie of the Year award was renamed in his honor and recognizes an Ambassador for outstanding service during their first year. The Chamber Staff Liaison selects the recipient. The winner of the award is recognized at the M-Squad Annual Banquet. This year’s Annual Banquet is scheduled for Thursday, August 20th. The Chamber is a non-profit organization and the Volunteer Committee is not set up for a banquet budget. In previous years, the Chamber has shown their appreciation to the Volunteers by presenting them with paper certificates and taking them to dinner in a nice local restaurant. In the few short month’s I have been employed by the Chamber the dedication and commitment given by these Volunteers amazes me! I approached our President/CEO, Rob Cunningham and asked if we could honor them with a banquet that would include their spouse or a guest and present them with actual acrylic awards. The Chamber is so proud to announce that the Museuem of the Southwest has donated the facility to host the event, Ken’s Events and Tents is providing our fine linen and china and Clearsprings Restaurant is donating the meal! Once again I have been overwhelmed by generosity. I have heard inspirational comments made about Scott from the other Ambassadors that knew him. He truly was amazing. If you would please furnish me with an email address, I would like to forward you information about the banquet, the awards presented and a photo of our current group. I don’t know where you live. Maybe you could arrange to come and present the “Scott Seator Rookie of the Year Award” to our 2008-2009 recipient? Maybe you would consider an exclusive sponsorship for that award? I thought you would like to know about this “piece” of his life that is still very much alive! Scott Seator will live on and touch lives every year. And…his story will be heard and told by all those who are involved in any way with the Midland Chamber of Commerce Ambassadors. Best regards and I look forward to hearing from you, Marla

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